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Common questions

Common questions.

Is this therapy or coaching?

Neither. It is design and project management applied to your actual life — your home, your week, your wardrobe, your systems. If what you need is therapy, I will say so, and I know good people.

Do you work with men only?

The practice was built around men navigating divorce, and that is still a large part of it. The method applies to anyone whose life has changed shape.

What if I do not know what I want yet?

That is the normal starting point, and the first session is built for it. Almost nobody arrives with the answer. What they arrive with is a sense that something is off, which is enough.

Do you come to my home?

In The Reset and above, yes — the environment is where most of the work is. The Compass is delivered entirely by video, and plenty of people start there.

How long does this take?

The Intensive is one day. The Compass runs three months minimum. The Reset is usually three to six. A Signature Transformation is scoped to the project.

What if I am outside Ventura and Santa Barbara?

The Compass works anywhere. For hands-on work, extended travel to Los Angeles and the surrounding area is available with additional fees.

Is any of this confidential?

Completely. No names, no photographs, no case studies, no details — ever, without written permission. Most of what I do never appears anywhere.

What happens on the first call?

Thirty minutes. You describe what has changed and what is bothering you; I ask questions. No charge and no pitch. If it is not a fit I will tell you on that call.

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